I still think about how close I came to missing you. I sent a message, and Aisha answered it. That is the whole origin story, a wrong reply that turned out to be exactly the right one. I have never been so grateful to be redirected.
People describe love like it is one large, loud event. Mine isn’t. Mine is small and daily and stubborn: it is seeing something maroon on the road and immediately deciding it belongs to you. It is opening my phone to another photo of you blowing a kiss at a camera that did nothing to deserve it.
I watch you carry pharmacy school like it is a small thing. It is not a small thing. Nobody sees the reading, the labs, the weeks that ask for more than you have — and you do it anyway, and still show up gentle. I am prouder of you than I know how to say out loud.
You are the easiest thing in my life. Everything else I have to plan for, argue with, or build twice. You I simply love; no strategy, no version two. You are the sweetest thing I have, and I do not say that as a figure of speech.
So: happy Girlfriend’s Day, IKO. Thank you for the kisses, for the patience, for surviving that turkey long enough to get here. Today, and the several thousand ordinary days after it.
Alli Written for one reader · never reprinted